The Real Reason Mindset Work Isn’t Working
Nervous system integration is the missing link for so many creatives who feel stuck even after years of personal development. You can read the books, hire the coach, do the affirmations—but if your body still feels unsafe, your brain will keep pulling you back into survival mode. Kathryn Spears dropped major insight on my latest podcast episode about why traditional mindset work doesn’t stick unless your nervous system is on board. Spoiler alert: it’s not about pushing harder.
Your Body Is Running the Show
We’ve all been there—scrolling, multitasking, chasing the next hit of dopamine—thinking we’re being productive when in reality we’re in a state of subtle survival. Kathryn explained how nervous system integration actually shifts those patterns by rewiring how we perceive safety. When you start to regulate your system, your body stops bracing for danger and starts expanding into creativity and visibility. You stop white-knuckling your business and start leading with clarity.
Understanding the Filtration System
One of the most mind-blowing parts of our conversation was the idea that we each have a filtration system made up of our senses and experiences. Kathryn shared how our breath, vision, and body awareness all contribute to how we process stress. If you’re constantly operating from shallow breathing and tension, your system is telling your brain that you’re not safe. Nervous system integration shifts that input so the output—aka your behavior, energy, and confidence—can finally change.
Practical Steps That Actually Work
You don’t need to overhaul your entire life to start this work. Kathryn offered tangible tools like visual resets and measuring range of motion to test whether something is working for your nervous system. Nervous system integration isn’t a one-size-fits-all protocol—it’s about finding what your body needs to feel safe. When you do that, everything from productivity to parenting to pricing your services changes, and not because you forced it.
Why This Work Is Bigger Than You
Here’s the part that gave me chills: when women regulate their nervous systems, they change the culture around them. Kathryn’s story about how her daughter offered a hug to a crying classmate nearly brought me to tears. Nervous system integration creates safer families, businesses, and communities. If you’ve been craving leadership without burnout, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed.
Connect with Kathryn:
Her site: https://kathrynspears.co/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathryn-spears/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathrynspears.co/
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